Showing posts with label teenagers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label teenagers. Show all posts

Friday, September 29, 2017


The Grown-Up’s Guide to Teenage Humans by Josh Shipp aims to show us how to decode their behavior, develop unshakable trust, and raise a respectable adult. And overrall it delivers.

Josh Shipp was a troubled teen himself. I heard him speak in Orlando a few years back at the Christian Alliance For Orphans conference. His presentation was powerful, funny and loaded with compelling information. 

Josh spent most of his young life in and out of foster homes and was so used to being rejected, he made it his goal to get booted out of each foster home as quickly as possible—and by any means possible. He was good at it. Until one day, one person changed everything. Rodney, an ordinary guy was catalyst to changing this troubled teen’s life so simply and yet so drastically that Shipp became an an expert, an authority and an advocate for teens.

Drawing from his own experience, education and humor as well as a myriad of resources, Shipp’s book TheGrown-Up’s Guide to Teenage Humans covers many relevant topics including: stages of growth, identity, relationships, communication, education, drugs, sex, depression, eating disorders, sexting, cutting, hormones, pornography, bullying…

He seems to hit on just about everything pertinent to today’s teen culture, and provides guidelines—including potential scenarios and coversations—on how to navigate it and best reach the teens in our lives.

Josh Shipp’s book almost covers it all. Almost. But there is something lacking—at least from my perspective as a child advocate working with troubled kids (Orphans First),  and as an author of a biblical parenting book. The most important ingredient for teens and adults investing in teens seems to be missing from this book: the God factor.

If Josh Shipp’s goal is to provide practical guidelines across the spectrum for those of us who love the teens in our lives, the book is a fabulous tool—a fabulous handbook of wisdom. But if Shipp wants to help us the caregivers, and help them the teens, to have a higher chance of true success – eternal success – then  bringing God into the picture would seem a no-brainer—especially coming from a Christian perspective.

Still, The Grown-Up’sGuide to Teenage Humans clearly pinpoints how to get teens and supplies excellent pointers and pity key comments on how to help them thrive.

The Grown-Up’s Guide to Teenage Humans (Harper Wave) can help any parent, foster parent or caring adult navigate mentoring the teens in their lives.  Check it out here. 

This article also appears in Assist News. 

Janey DeMeo M.A.

Copyright © September 2017




Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Where Hope Grows and exclusive interview with writer-director Chris Dowling



Where Hope Grows is a wonderful story with a difference. One of the major characters is a Down syndrome person and his authentic and generous affection. But before I tell you more about the movie, let me introduce you to Chris Dowling, the writer/director. In my interview with him, I was moved by Chris’ approach to sharing what is important to him—in particular His passion for Jesus.

J—I absolutely love this story. It was wonderful. But what made it especially inspiring is the character played by David DeSantis. What inspired you to make one of the key characters a Down syndrome person?

CD—Where Hope Grows is the story about a man who was introduced to child-like faith as an adult during a time when he was broken. I needed someone to show that child-like faith. So, it made sense to use David DeSantis. The world often thinks that special needs people don’t have it together, but maybe they have it together a lot more than many of us.

J—Am I correct in saying that this was David’s first time acting right?

CD—Yes. This was David’s first time acting—and he did a great job.

J—How did you hear about him? 

CD—I put out a worldwide search but it was actually there in Louisville that a lot of people said I needed to check out David DeSantis. I had him send in a tape but the tape wasn’t that great. But his personality is so great, I thought he’d be a good fit. In real life, he is just adorable! 

J—Where Hope Grows is packed with strong lessons, but what is the message you most want people to take away from it? 

CD—It’s really two-fold. First there’s the conversation about faith. We all long to believe in something, to have faith/believe in God so we wanted to address that. At the same time, society is stuck with what they think special needs people are, and we wanted to shatter the stereotype image. We wanted Produce to be that person.

J—Is there anything else you want the readers to know about you or the film?

CD—I would say for people to see more films with special needs people, to support those films.  If we can reach across to the secular crowd and faith believers too, Hollywood will take notice.

J—Thank you Chris. Wonderful movie.

So, what is Where Hope Grows?

It is a film of ex-baseball player, Calvin Campbell (Kristoffer Polaha—TV’s Ringer, TV’s Life Unexpected) and a losing relationship with his teenage daughter, Katie (McKaley Miller—TV’s The Gates, TV’s Hart of Dixie).

Juggling the demands of a pushy boyfriend and teen life overall, Katie is sick of being the only responsible person in the household. Her dad fails to keep his promises and she cannot rely on him for anything. Worse: the roles are reversed and Katie ends up bailing him out of an embarrassing situation.

If the story sounds cliché so far, a surprise element makes it not so. Calvin’s turnaround begins in the local grocery story where he meets an unlikely friend—Produce (David DeSanctis).

Produce is an authentic Down syndrome man who possesses a heart of gold and a brilliant memory for numbers. In his child-like innocence and pure faith, he is catalyst to Calvin’s redemption.

With compelling integrity and affection, Produce is enough to melt the hearts of anyone, even Calvin Campbell and his daughter, Katie.

Produced by Lionsgate, this inspiring film will be out in Blu-ray, and DVD on August 25th. Digital and HD Special features include:
·      Entertaining deleted scenes
·      Casting David DeSantis featurette
·      Stop the R-Word featurette
·      Audio commentary with writer/director Chris Dowling and actor David DeSantis

Find out more about WhereHope Grows here.

This is a fabulous movie that you’ll want to visit more than once.

This story will also appear in Assist News Service. 

Janey DeMeo M.A.

Copyright © August 2015

JaneyDeMeo.com

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Abel's Field


Abel’s Field recounts the compelling and captivating story of Seth (Samuel Davis), a high-school teen who finds himself in severe hardship, carrying burdens no 17-year-old should ever have to bear.



To add to Seth’s difficulties, the school coach seems to have it in for him. Seth not only has to work two jobs to pay the family bills, but he also has to work a third, unpaid job to meet the coach’s exigencies. All this on his plate while also caring for younger siblings.

But God has not forgotten Seth. He is waiting to be merciful and gracious to him. Seth, on the other hand, seems to have forgotten God—or at least forgotten how simple it is to lay his burdens at the feet of Jesus. Seth has forgotten that God is only a prayer away. 

View my full review of Abel's Field in The San Diego Christian Perspectives Examiner.  (Also in Assist News Service.) 

Janey DeMeo M.A.

Copyright © February 2013